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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 03:40

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why do some people enjoy being dominated?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why do people who aren't trans feel the need to put pronouns next to their name or picture? It seems so cringeworthy to me, to participate in that SJW paradigm of thought, like they are a spineless person who just goes along with the trends.

Ask yourself:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Beautiful European women were killed by inquisition but Russia was not Catholic. Is this the reason for a drastic difference explaining why Russian women are the prettiest?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?

What I need from you?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How is digital marketing important for business?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How does the narcissist react when he realizes you no longer care?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Why is my ex trying to provoke an argument with me?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Is Florida now unsurvivable because it's an oven due to climate change? It's 11:48 am on May 30th and the heat index in SoFla is 100. I can see it going up to over 130 by July.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Does meth make women super horny like it does men?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What is the funniest husband-wife comedy team ever: Abbott & Costello, Martin & Lewis, Burns & Allen or something else entirely?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How do you recognize when your mental health might need attention?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Making more friends is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.